Love, Serve, Remember

It’s exciting times at Fallen Angel these days–so much so that I’ve barely had time to keep my personal blog updated. To catch you up, we’ve been steadily in production mode cranking out features such as Amateur Angels, Kinky Desires, Swingers Wife Swap (1 and 2) and Bi-Curious Amateurs for Adam & Eve. During this same time, we’ve also been adding new adult  toy products to our consumer website FallenAngelTV.com as well as expanding our successful Sex Across America blog into an ongoing web-based discussion about a wide variety of sex trends and news from around the country. As long-time sex-positive activists, Alexandra and I are using this platform to cover serious issues from an intelligent and proactive point of view with a bit of playful humor when appropriate. I hope you’ll check it out and join in with your support.
Even with carving out some wonderful play time here and there along the way, it’s been rather amazing how fast time is just flying by these days–and that’s just a matter of my commitment to a fairly focused work ethic and an incredible personal journey of health and discovery. That said, I sincerely appreciate each and every one of you who supports us and takes the time to stay in touch, so I will make the effort to keep the info flowing through here on a more consistent basis.

In loving memory of Scarlet Begonia

   Rest in Peace, David Scott Priday, aka, Scarlet Begonia –  (3/30/62 – 7/29/11).

Scarlet Begonia, Rest in Peace

Rest in Peace, master editor, Scarlet Begonia.

My longtime friend, master video editor, and business partner,  was found dead last weekend. Survived by both mother, father and three brothers, Dave’s lifeless body was found floating in the water, next to his sailboat, at the Long Beach Marina. David, who was a pioneer in his field and edited all of my early movies such as “The Dirty Dancers”, “Bitchin”, “My Dad’s Dirty Movies”, “The Master’s Choice”, “Sex Across America”, “Amateur Angels” and the award winning, Fallen Angel series, “Internal Affairs”.  Scarlet Begonia artistically edited, countless erotic videos for major companies including: Hustler – “Barely Legal”, Randy West Productions – “Up and Cummers”,  Ed Powers – “The Dirty Debutantes”, Adam & Eve, Totally Tasteless Video, Zane Productions, and many others.

 David’s family requested, that I say a few words at Scarlet Begonia’s funeral services. It was truly one of the hardest days of my life. His family was the epitome of strength and unity of a warm close knit, loving family. Awe inspiring is the best way to describe how they handled this sudden death and supported each other through out the process. They left no doubt as to why David was such a good, kind and trustworthy friend. Here is the eulogy I shared with Dave’s family:

       ”First, may I extend my deepest sympathies to Mr. and Mrs. Priday, Robert, Steve, John and all of those who loved and cared for David; gathered here today. I am honored to have been asked to say a few words about our loss of a dear friend. Many of you may not know me, but David was family to me. He was a true, loyal and trustworthy friend, an impeccable business partner and a very talented editor.
David, who’s nom de plume is Scarlet Begonia, was one of those people you could always depend on. He was a master of his craft for over thirty years. Consistently on time, professional, Dave never failed to take a moment to return a phone call or help a friend in need. During the 18 years we worked together, David didn’t miss a single day of work. I never heard him raise his voice, a trait I am certainly envious of. He was a kind, considerate and gentle man who was rich in his number of friendships.David’s story ended too quickly, as great books often do. “This too shall pass” becomes a shocking reality when a loved one is taken away in such a sudden, and unexpected manner. The brighter side of the story is that David did not suffer in the end. He was not sick, spent no time in the hospital and will never know the aches and pains of growing older. We have only the good times to remember: Dave’s eternally youthful, impish grin, his warm friendship and his positive outlook on life even in these hard economic times.The great painter Marcel DuChamp, once wrote, “my life is my art”. This is certainly true of our brother David. He lived life to it’s fullest. Just look at his photos, of his family, his friends, sailboats, lobsters, pretty girls – what a beautiful portrait of life David leaves for us to remember him through. Let’s celebrate David’s life together with the words of his favorite song, Scarlet Begonia by The Grateful Dead:

“Seldom turns out the way it does in the song.
Once in a while you get shown the light,
in the strangest of places if you look at it right.”

My wife has a photo of Dave on which he signed, “You make me want to be a better man.”  This is exactly how I feel about knowing Dave: He made me want to be a better man. Rest in Peace, my dear friend. We will love and miss you always.”

Sex Wisdom podcast with Dr. Richard Wagner

Richard Wagner, Ph.D., ACS, interviews Luc Wylder, in his latest Sex Wisdom podcasts, Part 1  and Part 2.

Clinical Sexology and Sexual Health Care

Dr. Dick's Sex Wisdom

 Dr. Dick has been practicing as a clinical sexologist in Seattle, for over 30 years.  Focused on, sex therapy and relationship counseling, Dr. Dick is now a driving force, in the evolution of human sexuality. 

Dr. Dick’s explains his  philosophy in the following: “I affirm the fundamental goodness of sexuality in human life, both as a personal need and as an interpersonal bond. I know the unhappiness and anxiety, which sex-negative attitudes can engender in individuals, alienating them from their own body and the bodies of others. I know that such attitudes affect not only a person’s sex life, but also his/her ability to relate well with others.
   Sexual wellbeing is more than simply being able to perform. It is also taking responsibility for one’s eroticism as an integral part of one’s personality and involvement with others. Between the extremes of total sexual repression and relentless sexual pursuit, a person can find that unique place, where he/she is free to live a life of self-respect, enjoyment and love.
   Each person is a special ensemble of dispositions and needs and his/her uniqueness must be respected. My aim is to provide such information and guidance as will help the individual approach his/her unique sexuality in a realistic and responsible manner, as well as further his/her independent growth, personal integrity, and have a more joyful experience of living.”

The interview was amazing. We gobbled up airtime so quickly,  the interview was split into two parts. Please enjoy my views on erotica, human sexuality,  sensate partner therapy and more in Sex Wisdom, Part 1  and Part 2.

Comments are always appreciated. Thank you for reading.

Alexandra Silk and Luc Wylder promote Sex Surrogacy on Playboy Radio, 'Night Calls'.

Chatsworth, CA — AVN, Hall of Famers and owners of FallenAngel.TV, Alexandra Silk and Luc Wylder, appearing live on Playboy Radio to promote the completion of their professional sex surrogacy training with International Professional Surrogates Association. 

Alexandra Silk and Luc Wylder

Luc Wylder and Alexandra Silk on Playboy Radio "Night Calls"

IPSA is an organization that provides education, referral and support to a worldwide community of professionals in the field of surrogate partner therapy.  IPSA’s surrogate training is based on the successful methods of Masters and Johnson. The training is for individuals who want to become certified, sex surrogates and therapists, who want to enhance their clinical skills, and learn more about sex therapy and surrogate partner therapy.

“It’s very soulful and rewarding work we are doing” said Luc Wylder. “We work with clients with a wide range of sexual dysfunctions. There’s a desperate unrecognized need for this type of health care in our society. Promoting sexual health has been my primary objective since I first entered the adult industry”.

“Many people don’t understand what a sex surrogate is” explains Alexandra Silk. “The simple way to explain it is, it’s the perfect  ménage a trios. A therapist, a client and a sex surrogate or in other terms, a surrogate partner. We are hired only through a professional therapist. This three person therapeutic team has a long term goal for the client to develop healthy relationships with physical and emotional intimacy. We teach them how to touch and how to receive touch. I model effective communication skills and emotional honesty. Genital to genital contact is often not a part of the therapy. I offer experiences of shared physical intimacy, to facilitate in the development of healthy concepts of self esteem, and improve their overall sexual health. It’s a gradual skill building and healing process which requires time and practice”. 

Surrogate partner therapy deals with problems from general social anxiety, to specific sexual dysfunctions. Concerns for either gender might result from any of the following: problematic relationships, medical conditions, negative body image or physical disfigurement; sexual, physical or emotional abuse or trauma, confusion about sexual orientation, lack of social or sexual self confidence. Some common sexual concerns for male clients involve dissatisfaction with orgasm, ejaculation, and/or erection difficulties. Female client sexual issues might involve difficulties with orgasmic release or penetration. Clients of either gender may seek therapy to address problems relating to lack of experience, fear of intimacy, shame or anxiety regarding sex, low level of arousal or lack of sexual desire. For more information about IPSA please visit www.surrogatetherapy.org.

 Visit AlexandraSilk.com and LucWylder.com for more information.

 Night Calls is broadcast live from Los Angeles, Monday through Friday from 4 to 7 p.m. PST. The show can be heard on channel 99 on both XM and Sirius.

Listeners are encouraged to phone in during the show to talk to Alex or Luc by calling (877) 205-9796.

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Alexandra Silk and Luc Wylder, Live with Dr. Lori Buckley.

Sherman Oaks, CA – Tune in to LA Talk Radio . Listen to Alexandra Silk and I as we appear live, with the world famous, sex therapist,  Dr. Lori Buckley. We recently met Lori for dinner with her wonderful husband; Dr. Mark Schoen from Sex Smart Films.  This is a great resourse site dedicated to promoting sexual literacy. Together, we found our new friends Lori and Mark to be a tremendously, well educated, and sex positive couple. I can’t wait to hear some of the questions Lori’s callers will have for us.

Luc Wylder and Alexandra Silk perfect fallen angels.Licensed psychologist.

Dr. Lori Buckley is a hot, licensed psychologist  and certified sex therapist with extensive training and experience in relationship and sexual issues. Dr. Lori says “This should be a very fun, sexy and informative hour. Please join us”.

 

You can hear us live and call in with all your sexy questions.  If you are not able to catch us live, you can listen to the archived show on: http://www.latalkradio.com/Players/Sexy-030510.shtml

Thanks for listening.

Jamie Gillis another lost angel.

New York City, NY – My dear friend and legendary superstar of adult films, Jamie Gillis passed away from Melanoma, two days ago. It was only a few months back that we spent the afternoon in his quaint, 1800’s, historical home in NYC, shooting an interview with Cass Paley. There was a lush green tranquil court yard in the back of the crooked little house which offered a beautiful, softly diffused natural, light. A few minutes to set up equipment, tripod, camera, tape, angle a reflector or two, wire Jamie to the microphone, and we were on our way.

When Jaime spoke it was like an old sage sharing the wisdom of the elders with a young apprentice. He spoke of times of sexual revolution, civil rights, the dawning of the Age of Aquarius and the early days of porn. I hope the youth of the world never forget the courage and political commitment of men like Jamie Gillis.

Alexandra Silk & I spent several precious evenings with Jamie and our gang of New York City based, adult celebrities including, his lady, Zarela, Fred Lincoln, Vanessa del Rio, Candia Royalle, Edward Mapplethorpe, Michele Capozzi, Veronica Vera, and other close friends. Jaime never let any of us know he was sick. He was a thoughtful man who never wanted to impose on others.

I hope Jamie is in eternal bliss, wrapped comfortably in the arms of his sisters including our precious Marilyn Chambers, Erica Boyer, Linda Lovelace, Terry Diver, Savanah, our angel Missy and hanging with his nasty boys, Bruce-7 and Duck Dumont. May Jamie be fondly remembered by all his leading ladies. Rest in Peace.

Finally, my heart goes out to Jaime’s loved ones, especially Zarela who helped add love, joy and a lot of great spicy food to the last years of Jamie’s life. May all that you have given, come back to you tenfold.

Alexandra Silk and Luc Wylder, Live on Playboy.

Burbank, CA – Luc Wylder and Alexandra Silk will be appearing live on Playboy Radio to promote the official opening of our corporate website www.FallenAngel.tv.

Luc Wylder and Alexandra Silk at the grand opening.

FallenAngel.tv offers quality, erotic, video on demand movies; produced and directed by Luc and Alex. As multi award-winning owners of Fallen Angel®, we focus primarily on kinky amateur couples and sexual travelogues, featuring strippers having sex across America. We also offer a high-end fetish line called The Master’s Choice, and the highly acclaimed, antique erotica series, titled My Dad’s Dirty Movies.

We’re excited to be announcing the release of Fallen Angel’s internet based video theater to the world on Playboy Radio. We’ve been working diligently on this project for many years and all the hard work is finally paying off. My dream of developing an internet based video theater is now a reality.

Alexandra Silk, better known as the mischievous, Bailiff Silk, from Playboy TV’s Sex Court, says, “I’m thrilled to represent my company FallenAngel.TV and the new VOD theater. It’s the rewards to all our HARD work!”

Alexandra Silk and I are also happy to report on our current endeavor in becoming IPSA certified sex surrogates. We’re performing groundbreaking work in the field of human sexuality and are delighted to be able to expand our sexual horizons while helping others.

Visit www.AlexandraSilk.com  for more information.

Night Calls broadcast live from Los Angeles, Monday through Friday from 4:00 pm – 7:00 pm PST. The show can be heard on channel 99 on both XM and Sirius.

Listeners are encouraged to phone in during the show to talk to Alex or me by calling (877) 205-9796.

Tantric Weekend at the Rooftop Resort

Hollywood, FL – (Oct. 17–19) – Join our beautiful sexual mischief maker, Alexandra Silk and I at the fabulous clothing optional Rooftop Resort for a weekend of fun, sun and sexual education in the ancient art of Tantric lovemaking. We are honored to present our very good friends Patricia Johnson and Mark Michaels as the guest teachers for this exciting weekend event.
Alexandra Silk and Luc Wylder in FloridaTantric Instructors Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson
      These world famous tantric sex instructors have authored two award winning books and appeared in several instructional DVDs produced by the Alexander Institute including Tristan Taormino’s Chemistry 4. Mark and Patricia have taught throughout the United States, as well as in Canada, the Caribbean, Europe, and Australia. Their sexy classes include traditional lineage-based tantric approach to love making with the best contemporary methods so that students can bring a heightened sense of awareness and an expanded capacity for pleasure into both their sexual experiences and all aspects of everyday life.
      The event runs from Friday night until Sunday afternoon with a sexual tantric play party scheduled for Saturday evening. Alexandra, Patricia, Mark and I will be in residence at the hotels for the entire weekend. We are looking forward to meeting you all. Check out the Rooftop Resort website for more details. I have a feeling it’s going to be a packed house so please make your reservations now. I don’t want any of you to miss out this amazing opportunity to meet our instructors and expand your sexual horizons. See you there.

A Swinging Weekend Affair

    

Come this Weekend to Rooftop Resort

1215 North Ocean Drive, Hollywood, Florida 33019  Tel: 1-800-647-5426   www.rooftopresort.com   
A SWINGING WEEKEND AFFAIR WITH ALEXANDRA SILK AND LUC WYLDER
 AT THE ROOFTOP BEACH HOUSE RESORT IN HOLLYWOOD, FLORIDAFebruary 29th – March 2, 2008 Playboy TV & FallenAngelVideo.com’s Alexandra Silk is coming to town!

Alex has been a smash hit as the mischievous bailiff in the popular Playboy series “Sex Court” and has just been inducted into the AVN Hall of Fame for her erotic body of work as performer, producer and director in the adult movie industry. Now she is appearing live with her husband, the kink master & world renowned director Luc Wylder. Join us at the infamous Rooftop Beachhouse Resort, known for its wild crowd, clothing optional, lifestyle friendly atmosphere and its hot theme rooms. Saturday night will boast a kink & silk theme party with a DJ and food. BYOB with free set-ups.

Join Alex and Luc for the day or for the whole weekend full of parties, food, swinging fun and maybe a surprise or two for some lucky guys or couples that catch Alex’s eye. Anything can happen and probably will. Take a Polaroid, get an autograph, love, laugh, and buy her hot new movie created for swingers by swingers. Alexandra Silk and Luc Wylder are on top of the world, so cum and join the SIZZLE, SUN, SWING PARTY all weekend long.
Beautiful naked girl floating in pool