Sexual Evening at The Pleasure Salon

 

Alexandra and I ventured into New York City last week to join our wonderful friends at the Pleasure Salon. This sexually diverse crowd of radically liberal sexual intellectuals meets once a month for social intercourse and sexual interaction. Members gather from sexually elite sources including academia, fashion, journalism, photography, film making, The Internet and sex workers. Their goals are simply to love, respect and accept all guests. What a far cry from the days when everyone needed a label and would socialize only with their own. Gays, lesbians, bisexuals, dominants, submissives, fetish enthusiasts, swingers, vanilla couples and sexual singles all bathing in a oasis of sexual inclusion and acceptance.

Several of the city’s hottest sexbloggers were on hand including the lovely, Rachel Bussel from www.lustylady.blogspot.com. Viviane, the uber blogger of www.thesexcarnival.com was gracious to offer several useful tips on running my blog. She scolded me as I told her I only had a few posts up. Don’t worry my friend, there is much to share. I have, started to read the book you recommended, Clear Blogging. I’m still learning about blogging communities and now there’s an upgrade to WordPress 2.5 to attend to.

I had a pleasant conversation with Selina from www.selinafire.blogspot.com about launching a WordPress blog for the Pleasure Salon. We concluded it would  be an effective method for all to stay up to date on parties, locations, events, topics of erotic interest and individual contact info. Selina will be discussing this idea with others. I’ll be sure to post details as future developments emerge.

The party was held in a small, dark, wooden bar on the lower east side of New York City.  Guests dress or undress for the occasion in their favorite fantasy wear. Complete transformations occur as street people enter, shrug off tattered overcoats to reveal their shinny new latex selves. There are no pretensions among this crowd. All are welcome and the energy or the room reflects it. A sharp smack is heard coming from the back of the room. A cry of Ecstasy and another smack is followed by wanton cries for more. The spanking crowd is at it again and Alex’s sweet smile turns to a devilish grin as she positions her butt to receive a little attention. Never one to decline an invitation, my merciful hand comes down swiftly on naked flesh and echoes the sound from the back of the room.

Alex and I played on through the night, stopping and flirting at every strip club between Manhattan and home. Thoughts of the Pleasure Salon danced in our heads. The point is the gathering created great sexual energy that transcends being just a party. This is a movement. A very current and inclusive movement to stop the nonsensical judgementalism that often infiltrates sexual interest groups. Imagine the concept that sexual pleasure is to be enjoyed and nurtured and not used as a weapon. I’m proud of these courageous kinky pioneers for paving the way of our future attitudes towards sexuality. Long may your flag fly, Pleasure Salon.

A Movement of Liberation

The point is the gathering created great sexual energy that transcends being just a party. This is a movement. A very current and inclusive movement to stop the nonsensical judgementalism that often infiltrates sexual interest groups. Imagine the concept that sexual pleasure is to be enjoyed and nurtured and not used as a weapon,” Luc Wylder

Ahh, a very comforting thought that lingers deep in the mind and causes me to reminisce about my early beginnings in a wonderful lifestyle.  We come into the world free, yet shortly thereafter we are enslaved, first by religious traditions, familial traditions and just as burdensome and perhaps having a greater grasp, societal norms.   It’s not surprising to experience stress, feelings of inadequacy and grief.  Something inside naws away repeatedly, until we are strong enough to stand up to all this outside stimuli.  We challenge the very things that kept us contained and we are set free,  once again. 

Being, totally, uninhibited with your sexual desires and engaging in them fully is, both, liberating and extremely gratifying.  Sharing with others only heightens these sensations.  Being in a place where others share the same commonalities, certainly creates a movement.  Lets continue to enjoy our sexual pleasure in an environment that is conducive to friendship, pleasure, passion and lust…